Thai nurse’s affair leads to bedside BDSM sex scandal

A Thai man turned to social media influencer Guntouch “Gun” Pongpaiboonwet for help after his wife, who worked as a nurse, allegedly cheated on him and became addicted to sadistic BDSM sex with the director of the hospital in the central province of Nonthaburi.

The 30 year old man, named Boy, revealed during a press conference with Gun and multiple news agencies that he has a four year old child with his 28 year old wife and lived happily together until the hospital director stepped into their lives last year, 2023.

His wife changed. She refused to answer his phone calls, did not return home, and often visited the house of someone she claimed was her female colleague.

The truth came to light on May 30 this year when Boy noticed bruises on his wife’s body. He secretly checked her mobile phone and found a video of her having sex with another man, who he later learned was the hospital director.

His wife admitted to cheating on him because she favoured the director’s sadistic sexual activities. She told Boy that she preferred BDSM (bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism) sex and wanted to use a chain, whip, handcuffs, and candle wax during sex. The hospital director could do this for her, unlike Boy.

Boy added that he used to find candle wax on his wife’s nurse uniform but had never been suspicious until he discovered the affair.

Boy revealed that he promised to provide her with the dream sex but she insisted on leaving him. The wife told him that she loved him and their child but the hospital director was much better than him in bed.

Wife defends herself

Boy was invited to an interview on a news programme on Channel 3 yesterday, June 20, and his wife gave an interview via phone call.

The wife defended herself, stating she did not cheat on Boy and had attempted to end the relationship with him multiple times, but her husband refused to accept it. She explained that they had argued and agreed to live separately, having slept in different bedrooms for a long time.

The woman insisted that her BDSM sexual preferences were not the reason for wanting to end the relationship. She accused Boy of being violent and destroying objects when they argued. This behaviour made her scared and sick of her husband.

She admitted that she is now in a relationship with the hospital director and defended him, saying that he was unaware she hadn’t officially ended things with her husband. She confessed to feeling torn, sometimes wanting to reconcile with Boy, who remains just a friend for now.

Boy confided in Gun that he plans to sue his wife for having an affair with another man and has no intention of reconciling with her.

Aside from the legal proceedings against his wife, Boy also submitted a complaint to the Ministry of Public Health, leading the accused hospital director to be removed from his position temporarily until the investigation into the case is finished.